
Letting baby cry himself to sleep: methods, benefits and limits
From life in the womb to life in the open air—it’s a completely different world! While your baby was warm and cozy in your belly, continuously rocked by your movements and the sounds of their cocoon, they suddenly find themselves far from these familiar sensations.
It’s no surprise, then, that your baby needs some time to adjust to this new world! To help them, you might have already heard about the swaddling “wild card”—let’s explore it together.
Swaddling involves wrapping your baby snugly in a thin blanket or cloth to keep them contained and limit their movements. This technique can be highly beneficial for your child, although not all babies necessarily respond to it. Swaddling can be a lifesaver if your baby is sensitive to it!
Swaddling helps babies rediscover sensations similar to those experienced in the womb, helping to:
✅Step 1: Spread out a large cloth or blanket in a diamond shape and fold the top corner down.
✅Step 2: Place your baby in the center, with their hands near their face and shoulders aligned with the fold made earlier (their face should never be covered).
✅Step 3: Fold their left arm so their hand is near their face, then wrap the left corner of the blanket over their left shoulder and tuck it beneath their right side.
✅Step 4: Repeat the same action for the right arm, bringing the fabric across their body and tucking it under their left side. Their hands should remain accessible, and their shoulders and hips comfortably secured.
✅Step 5: Twist the bottom corner of the blanket under their feet and tuck it beneath their back, ensuring your baby can straighten and move their legs freely (their movements shouldn’t be restricted).
Swaddling helps provide reassurance to your baby right from the start of their life, facilitating the transition from womb to “the outside world.”
You can begin swaddling from birth. If your baby enjoys swaddling and feels comfortable with it, you can swaddle them several times a day!
In general, swaddling is intended primarily for sleep times or to help calm crying.
❗Above all, always swaddle your baby under your supervision!
When swaddling your baby, certain precautions should be taken to avoid risks such as suffocation or overheating:
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To select the best swaddling blanket, consider the following points. The fabric should be:
Don’t forget to wash the cloth thoroughly before first use.
It’s recommended to swaddle your baby until they reach 2 months old at most.
Beyond this age, your baby gains mobility and risks rolling over, something that should absolutely not happen while swaddled (they don’t yet know how to lift their head using their forearms).
Moreover, while swaddled, your baby can’t learn to explore their own body and discover their physical abilities.
One of parents’ main concerns is getting their baby to sleep well. Newborn sleep can be restless, and that’s perfectly normal.
Besides swaddling, here are other tips to help your baby sleep:
❗A baby’s mattress should always be firm and clear of objects to minimize SIDS risk.
Are you worried about creating bad sleep habits?
Many parents have this concern—rest assured, you won’t. Your baby is only a few months old and still needs you to fall asleep, which is entirely normal. Falling asleep in your arms does not create bad habits.
On the contrary, the more you respond to their need for emotional security, the more sleep becomes a calm, comforting experience, eventually giving them the confidence to fall asleep independently when they’re ready.
Swaddling may soothe and reassure your baby, helping them sleep by providing a sense of containment similar to the womb. However, it’s crucial to do it only under supervision and not overnight while you sleep beside them.
In fact, good sleep practices are essential to reduce SIDS risks:
The WHO also recommends sharing your bedroom with your baby for the first 6 months of life, particularly to facilitate breastfeeding and breathing regulation.
Thus, swaddling is beneficial under supervision and only up to 2 months of age.
This text was translated from French by an artificial intelligence. The information, advice, and sources it contains comply with French standards and may therefore not apply to your situation. Make sure to complement this reading by visiting the May US/UK app and consulting the healthcare professionals who are supporting you.
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