{"id":28143,"date":"2025-11-21T08:00:47","date_gmt":"2025-11-21T08:00:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.may.app\/?p=28143"},"modified":"2025-11-21T13:45:11","modified_gmt":"2025-11-21T13:45:11","slug":"stopping-breastfeeding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.may.app\/en\/blog\/newborn\/stopping-breastfeeding\/","title":{"rendered":"2 tips from grandma to stop breastfeeding"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stopping breastfeeding is an important step, and it can be done gently. How can you manage persistent lactation, avoid engorgement, or help your child transition from the breast to the bottle? <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Stopping breastfeeding gently:<\/strong> medical advice and traditional grandmother tips. <\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Understanding weaning and what it involves<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The question of weaning can arise at different times, such as when you return to work, when your baby learns to feed in other ways than breast milk, or simply when you feel ready to stop. This process may be initiated by you or, sometimes, by your baby, who, as they grow, may begin to lose interest in breastfeeding, often between ages 2 and 7. There are three different types of weaning: <\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Partial weaning:<\/strong> transitioning to mixed feeding. You continue to breastfeed several times a day while alternating with a bottle.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Temporary weaning:<\/strong> a short break in case of a few days\u2019 separation from your baby. <\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Total weaning:<\/strong> completely stopping breastfeeding.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Weaning can be a sensitive time for you:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Pain related to milk let-down or breast engorgement<\/strong> is common and may sometimes lead to mastitis if not relieved in time. Hormonal changes also occur when breastfeeding stops, which may cause fatigue, sadness, or regret. <\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Want to learn more? Feel free to <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/app.adjust.com\/1pblulz8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">download the May app<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, where you&#8217;ll find plenty of resources to support and guide you throughout your journey as a new parent.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-28121\" src=\"https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/portrait-of-young-woman-with-pink-hair-and-baby-so-2024-11-03-02-55-12-utc.webp\" alt=\"Astuces de grand-m\u00e8re pour arr\u00eater l\u2019allaitement - May App Sant\u00e9\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/portrait-of-young-woman-with-pink-hair-and-baby-so-2024-11-03-02-55-12-utc.webp 1000w, https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/portrait-of-young-woman-with-pink-hair-and-baby-so-2024-11-03-02-55-12-utc-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/portrait-of-young-woman-with-pink-hair-and-baby-so-2024-11-03-02-55-12-utc-768x512.webp 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stopping breastfeeding: how to prepare for the transition<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">By adopting a gradual approach, maintaining a reassuring environment, and involving the co-parent, it is possible to anticipate this transition and approach it gently. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Planning and organizing the transition<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Gradual weaning is preferable.<\/strong> To make it successful, it is recommended to remove one feeding at a time, replacing it with a bottle or another age-appropriate feeding method. This gradual approach allows your body to reduce milk production without causing engorgement or nipple pain. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Grandmother\u2019s tip<\/strong>: it is best to avoid removing the morning feeding first, as it is often associated with strong milk flow, or the evening feeding, which is typically a comforting moment for your baby. <\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Creating a reassuring environment<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The end of breastfeeding can disrupt your baby\u2019s familiar cues. However, it remains important to maintain your usual bedtime routines. Skin-to-skin, cuddles, massages, and playtime are still just as important for your child. These moments provide comfort at a time when they can no longer nurse as before.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Involving the second parent<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The co-parent can also support your baby during this transition. It is often recommended that the co-parent be the one to offer the bottle during the first attempts. <strong>This helps reduce frustration from the absence of the breast<\/strong> and makes it easier for your child to accept the new feeding method.<\/span> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-28125\" src=\"https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/tired-new-mom-catching-up-on-sleep-while-baby-is-n-2024-10-11-19-37-44-utc.webp\" alt=\"Astuces de grand-m\u00e8re pour arr\u00eater l\u2019allaitement - May App Sant\u00e9\" width=\"1000\" height=\"668\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/tired-new-mom-catching-up-on-sleep-while-baby-is-n-2024-10-11-19-37-44-utc.webp 1000w, https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/tired-new-mom-catching-up-on-sleep-while-baby-is-n-2024-10-11-19-37-44-utc-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/tired-new-mom-catching-up-on-sleep-while-baby-is-n-2024-10-11-19-37-44-utc-768x513.webp 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The best grandmother tips for stopping breastfeeding<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many mothers turn to grandmother tips to stop breastfeeding. These natural, time-tested methods are often passed down through generations and can help gently reduce milk production while helping your baby adapt to their new routine without stress.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grandmother tips: herbs and teas to reduce lactation<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Some plants are known to help reduce lactation during weaning:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Sage<\/strong>: in tea form, it is known for its natural \u201canti-lactation\u201d properties. Its plant-based estrogens help slow breast milk production.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Parsley<\/strong>: eaten fresh or as a tea, it may help reduce milk flow.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Peppermint<\/strong>: traditionally used in tea to help limit lactation.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Caution<\/strong>: always ask your healthcare provider before using herbs, especially if you are still partially breastfeeding or have a specific medical history.<\/span><\/p>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grandmother tips: changing daily routines<\/span><\/h3>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Weaning also involves small adjustments in household organization and habits:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Rearrange spaces<\/strong>: move away familiar breastfeeding cues (nursing chair, pillow, etc.) to avoid reminding your baby of the breast or suction.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Modify routines<\/strong>: replace skin-to-skin or nursing moments with cuddles, massages, or stories. This reassures your child and provides new emotional anchors.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Adjust meal prep<\/strong>: prepare bottles or meals ahead of time so the transition remains smooth, without stress or rushing.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Good to know:<\/strong> another grandmother tip to stop breastfeeding is to introduce the bottle or pacifier outside mealtimes. This helps your child get used to the new sucking motion without pressure.<\/span> <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-28129\" src=\"https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/finding-peace-in-parenthood-a-serenely-smiling-mo-2025-02-21-13-11-06-utc.webp\" alt=\"Astuces de grand-m\u00e8re pour arr\u00eater l\u2019allaitement - May App Sant\u00e9\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/finding-peace-in-parenthood-a-serenely-smiling-mo-2025-02-21-13-11-06-utc.webp 1000w, https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/finding-peace-in-parenthood-a-serenely-smiling-mo-2025-02-21-13-11-06-utc-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/finding-peace-in-parenthood-a-serenely-smiling-mo-2025-02-21-13-11-06-utc-768x512.webp 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Grandmother tips: naturally relieving milk let-down<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">When feedings are spaced out or replaced by bottles, breasts can become tense and painful due to engorgement. Fortunately, there are several grandmother tips to stop breastfeeding while soothing your chest:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Cold compresses<\/strong>: using cold compresses or gel packs after feedings or pumping helps reduce let-down and relieve pain.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Limit stimulation<\/strong>: avoid stimulating your nipples as much as possible. This includes not using a breast pump (unless discomfort is significant) and reducing massages.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Grandmother tip:<\/strong> cabbage leaves work perfectly as cold compresses. Place chilled green cabbage leaves directly on your breasts, under your bra. Although not scientifically proven, cabbage leaves are believed to have anti-inflammatory properties that help relieve engorgement naturally. Change the leaves every 2 to 3 hours.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Breastfeeding creates a strong bond between you and your baby.<\/strong> Ending this chapter can stir emotions. These feelings are normal and deserve to be expressed. Don\u2019t hesitate to talk about your emotions with loved ones or other mothers. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, remember that each mother and baby experiences weaning at their own pace. Grandmother tips for stopping breastfeeding are there to support you, but the most important thing is to listen to yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-28133\" src=\"https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happiness-starts-with-happy-wives-2025-04-06-08-28-50-utc.webp\" alt=\"Astuces de grand-m\u00e8re pour arr\u00eater l\u2019allaitement - May App Sant\u00e9\" width=\"1000\" height=\"657\" title=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happiness-starts-with-happy-wives-2025-04-06-08-28-50-utc.webp 1000w, https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happiness-starts-with-happy-wives-2025-04-06-08-28-50-utc-300x197.webp 300w, https:\/\/www.may.app\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/happiness-starts-with-happy-wives-2025-04-06-08-28-50-utc-768x505.webp 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stopping breastfeeding: when to consult a healthcare professional?<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Weaning can sometimes be challenging, even when applying the best grandmother tips to stop breastfeeding. <strong>Medical support can help you navigate this period with confidence.<\/strong> Certain signs should alert you and justify a consultation:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Severe engorgement or significant breast pain that persists despite natural methods. Unrelieved engorgement may progress to an infection that requires medical care.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Fever, redness, or localized pain in one breast, accompanied by fatigue or general discomfort. These symptoms may indicate an infection that requires treatment.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Persistent feeding refusal from your child. If your baby cries excessively, seems to lose weight, or shows signs of dehydration (dry mouth, fewer wet diapers), it is important to consult quickly.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Concerns about milk production or lactation management: if you feel your milk supply is not decreasing despite weaning.<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Significant emotional difficulties: stopping breastfeeding may intensify deep sadness, anxiety, or contribute to postpartum depression. Speaking with a professional can help you during this delicate time.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Never hesitate to reach out to your doctor, midwife, pediatrician, or a maternal and child health center. Breastfeeding support associations are also valuable resources for discussing your feelings and receiving tailored advice.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, if you need to take medication or undergo surgery, <strong>always discuss with a healthcare professional to determine whether weaning is necessary or what adaptations are possible.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In summary, even though grandmother tips for stopping breastfeeding can greatly ease weaning and help your baby transition from breast to bottle, certain signs require the advice of a healthcare professional. <strong>Remember that every breastfeeding journey is unique<\/strong>, and the most important thing is to listen to yourself and move at your own pace.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>**<\/p>\n<p>Cr\u00e9dits photos : ImageSourceCur | davidprahl | yavdat | YuriArcursPeopleimages<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This text was translated from French by an artificial intelligence. The information, advice, and sources it contains comply with French standards and may therefore not apply to your situation. Make sure to complement this reading by visiting the May US\/UK app and consulting the healthcare professionals who are supporting you.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Stopping breastfeeding is an important step, and it can be done gently. How can you manage persistent lactation, avoid engorgement, or help your child transition from the breast to the bottle? Stopping breastfeeding gently: medical advice and traditional grandmother tips. 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